Is chivalry truly dead? Personally I think it is. Most of my life I’ve acted like an asshole, because it gets attention. I was successful, but I did not like being that guy. It was not me. Only this year did I start playing the nice guy, because that’s who I felt I really was. They say that nice things happen to nice people but I think that is bullshit. The breed of old fashion guys is dying, but that understandable. Todays society is rapidly changing and so are peoples ideas. You cant get the girl with by using old ways of thinking.
Nice guys don’t get far in life because nice guys are boring, predictable and seen as pathetic and creepy. Jerks get the girl, because it is never a boring day when you are dating an asshole. Deep down the girl hopes that she can change the jerk into a decent guy. Women say they want a nice guy but really they don’t. Good girls never go for the good boys, I’ll explain later. They like to see the rare occasion of their man finally doing something nice. If you were to ask this girl, “Why are you dating that asshole?”
“He’s a nice guy on the inside”
“It’s not who you are on the inside, its what you do that defines you.” Yeah I stole that from Batman Begins. Hes a nice guy on the inside, Don’t you mean he’s nice when he is inside you? Just kidding, but not really. They say that nice guys finish last, but I don’t entirely agree. I think nice guys finish in a tissue. Next time you go on a first date, give her a rose. Most likely she will find it creepy. Too many young women, there is a fine line between being nice and being disturbing. Us guys are given the stereotype that we are all walking errections, and chicks are given the sterotypes that they are supersensitive and emotional. Like I said before, some girls out there say that they want a sensitive guy, but who wants a mate that is almost like you. Guys don’t want women who fart, burp and pick there nose in public; or maybe you do. In society a sensitive man is seen as gay. It’s very hard to be sensitive and strong at the same time. Girls want at least one male friend so they don’t have to wonder if that male want to have sex with them.
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I don't think being a nice guy means you have to come off as creapy. If you just be yourself and stop worrying about what "type" of guy gets a certain type of girl, you will find that those girls are not the kind you want to be with in the first place. Why would you chase after a person who is only looking for one thing? If two people like eachother, they click. It's that simple. I have never seen any respectable girl go for a guy who constantly acts as an asshole or trys to get attention that way.
ReplyDeleteIt definitely depends on the person you are trying to get. I think if a guy wants to get a slutty girl for specifically physical reasons, sure, I'm sure acting like an asshole is going to be fine. But for people looking to actually have a connection with a respectable person, I don't see how chivalry and being nice is going to hurt you in any way.
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